Breaking up

Recently my boyfriend and I broke up and even though it was hard on me we are still friends. Many people ask me "how can you stay friends with your ex boyfriend?" It is not easy but it is possible if you try. Chris and I are super close so when we broke up it was hard for us not to talk. For always having the connection between  us there it was easy for us to stay friends. If you honestly care about an ex you can stay friends but I know sometimes you cannot. Here are some tips of ways you and your ex can be friends or at least kind to each other. First tip, always hear why the break up happened, when Chris broke up with me I got upset and left. He called me the next day and he told me why, it made me feel bad because it honestly was a good reason and not because he didn't like me anymore. Tip number two make sure you and the person you like are super close before you start your relationship, if a break up happens you two will always have a connection making the person want you in their life. My last and final tip is never ever yell or call your ex names you went out with them for reason and also turning your friends/family against them is a big N-O. Yes,  breaking up is always hard and you get mad and want to call your ex names but honestly you wouldn't do that if they never broke up with you. Another piece advice is for you girls out there, never let your friends talk bad about any of your exes because they "dumped" you. They have no right to call him a jerk or any other name because I bet if you would have broken his heart instead your friends wouldn't call you a jerk.I hope this helps out a bit to those who have an ex they still care about, just know it is possible because look at me and my ex we are still close to each other.

This picture was taken before we started going out.