A big thing that happens in a relationship is that people tend to get in your business. Your friends tell you their opinion on a guy and sometimes it's not what you want to hear. Friends tell you if the person you are dating is cute or bad/good for you. When people tell you that a person isn't good enough for you and that you should break up with them, you tend to wonder if you should listen to them and end it. Here's a few tips on what you should really do in this situation. Tip 1 DO NOT LISTEN TO THEM!!! It is your relationship not theirs, if you are happy with that person that's all that matters. Tip 2 if people are really your friends they would not be telling you to break up with a person who makes you truly happy. Tip 3 never ever put your friend before your relationship when that friend has been telling you from day one to end your relationship. Friends can get jealous of your relationship or hate the fact that you are spending your time with a new person. I know people who have ended their relationship because friends and people got in between their relationship and now wonder if they would have lasted together. I also know people who have ignored their friends opinions and are happy with their boyfriend/girlfriend. The only time you should listen to someone's opinion is when they have good reasons to want you to end the relationship, such as the person is controlling, is abusive, or they have noticed a big change in your behavior that worry them. I understand that sometimes it can get annoying when people constantly tell you that you should end the relationship but sometimes it's understandable. It is your relationship though and you have the final say what you do with it. If deep down you feel like you should end it then do it but make sure it's because you want to and not your friends. If you want to keep going with your relationship then go for it. A relationships is between two people not three or four. You as a person is old enough to decide what you should do. My mom told me that she will never tell me if she likes or dislike any of my boyfriends because it is my relationship. She said this because she never wants me to base my relationship of her opinion because sometimes a person she may like I might not like. If you know you are old enough to have a relationship then you should be strong enough to tell a person "Hey, this is MY relationship not yours." So to all of you guys with a relationship where everyone seems to be getting up in your business, stay strong and do what your heart and mind tells you.
Nice work, Yuvia!
ReplyDeleteI agree! If someone is a true friend they will support you no matter what.
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