GET TO KNOW SOMEONE – SLOWLY. Usually, people show only their best qualities in the beginning of new relationship. Given some time, unhealthy people will show their unhealthy side too - it’s only after some time has passed do they let their guards down and then the unhealthy behaviors come rolling out! http://canyourel8.com/relationship-tips
Relationships should always start off slow, get to know each other before making your relationship "official." My boyfriend and I were friends for awhile before becoming boyfriend and girlfriend. The best way to know if he/she is acting real with you is by spending time together. Hang out alone and with friends just because people tend to act different alone and with their peers. You never want to rush into things when it involves another person. The slower the better meaning you don't want to jump into a relationship right away or rush things to make your relationship serious when you guys barely started being an "item." In my relationship Chris and I took things slow, we got to know each other, our friends, and families. It made our relationship a lot easier, never being nervous or worried about meeting each others' parents. By being friends with the person you like, you will get to know them in a different way. Once you two become an item, things will not be as hard because you got to know your boo as a person/friend.
I like this post. I think for your next post you should add some fun facts about dating a best friend or facts about staying together or just interesting things like that. I like this topic.
ReplyDeleteI will so do that!!! I will write about the best friend relationship or how to make a relationship last! stay tune!
DeleteThis is a very cute idea to have your topic about I'm very pleased that you decided to start a blog like this. I'm a hopeless romantic so I love reading about relationship stuff.
ReplyDeleteI will add so many more cute stuff and if you have any ideas let me know!
DeleteIf relationships should be taken slowly, then how important are first impressions?
ReplyDeletefirst impressions are always important but sometimes a person can be so nervous or assume that you are this amazing person that can have any guy or girl so people tend to act all cocky when they really are not. that is a good idea for a post!
DeleteI enjoy your insight about how taking things slowly and focusing on getting to know a person is really important. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteI can already tell this is goingn to be a great blog! It's definitely true too. People rush to be ina relationship way too fast, which then just rushes the relationship.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree. People think they're in love after a week of "dating" and I always want to laugh.
ReplyDeleteThis is very helpful and it is a great blog. I will read more in the future.
ReplyDeleteI love this blog! I agree with it partially but its not always the case that people are friends before they date. There are several realationships that people know each other for a few days and start dating. I think this is based off peoples feelings toward one another.
ReplyDeleteI completely agree! I wish it were easier said than done though.
ReplyDeleteI agree! I've always heard that your husband should be your best friend so what's a better than starting a relationship as best friends already. You make many good points!
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